By chance, I had an amazing six-grade-student.
Not only she was smart but also she had a perfect manner and always put big enthusiasm
to my lesson. She knew how to draw my attention, liven the fun class atmosphere
and sometimes propose new idea for enjoyable lesson. She was likeable by the teachers
and by most of the students. I was so grateful having her in my classroom. I
could say as well, she was my sweetheart student.
Well, actually, the big story was
not about her but about she had -what people call- a very annoying young
brother. Let me call him, Reuben. He was six years old. When the mother drove
her to my school, Ruben would always tag her along. Then, the topsy-turvy would
happen soon. He would run here and there, touched anything that drew his
attention, sometimes made noisy sounds that disturbed the students who were
learning in my classroom.
His mother once said,” Miss. Sam, I
am sorry for my son’s misbehavior”. She was trying to calm Reuben down by
grabbing his arm so that he did not roam anywhere.
I tried to understand him sincerely
as I patted Reuben’s head softly and said, ”It’s okay, Reuben’s ma, I do understand.
Someday he will be sitting here and listening to my lesson”. My lips developed
a sincere smile. “By the way, do you send him to school? He just turns six last
month, isn’t he?” I asked the mother.
“Not to school, Miss Sam but currently
he is doing homeschool program. To be honest, I am afraid sending him to school
since he cannot behave well”.
“What do you mean? I don’t see his
misbehavior traits along this time?”
“Well,… you just don’t know him”,
Reuben’s ma sighed then shook her head, seemed hopeless. “You know, he should
be entering first grade this year. I took him to some schools in neighborhood even
to his sister’s school, but he rejects them all. It’s hard to explain the
reason, he just doesn’t want to go to school. If I insist him to go to school, I
am afraid he will make trouble at school, just like what happened when he was in
kindergarten before. That’s why I decide to homeschool him for a while than he
doesn’t study at all”.
I glanced at Reuben. He was
exploring things around me. My feeling as a teacher, I knew